"your father was diagnosed with Crohns disease. Its genetic"since then i saw the though side of my dad. how he fight to live as normal as possible. i also saw how my mom took care of my dad when he could not.our family was not the same. we are not as lively as we used to. my mom gave up her job to help my dad through his tough times.i was afraid.if i ever get married and the disease decides to invade my life. will my spouse stay.i dont want to know the answer. so i choose not to love.but, can i?